In any Game the winners are those who Understand how It works.
To suffer on account of the Game is to not Understand It.
In order to Understand how something works an individual must be willing to let go of what they believe it to be in exchange for what it Is.
How do you know what you believe to be true from what Is True?
You know by testing It.
Testing requires immersion
Within immersion the exchange between what you believe to be true and what is True is revealed.
Immersion is the Key for the door of Understanding.
To Understand the Game you have to immerse yourself into the Game.
It is the only way one can test what they believe to be true.
The quality of ones immersion into the game
Is the quality of ones desire to Understand the Game.